How To Tell...A Question almost Self Injury?
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I have a friend who self injured for about 3 years on and sour. This past year she started to become suicidal and cut a lot more than usual all the mode up her left arm. None of the scars on her lower arm are raised (keloid or hyptrophic) but in attendance are enough to draw attention. She's using Mederma, but the summer is here.
The reason I'm asking for her is because she wanted to know if she should relay her parents. This is the dilemma. Last year, she had an ex worried about her cutting and told a counselor. The counselor call her parents and there was this huge explosion. Because at the time she didn't have any results and it wasn't really very prominent SI (self-injury) at the time, they called her a liar and said that she be just doing it for attention. They grounded her for almost four months and she was devastated. She never got support. Well now, she has the scars. But, she's quit for biddable. The only reason was that a few days ago she asked me if she should transmit her parents. She doesn't want to ask for help, she wants to know if she should tell because she can't move about out in t-shirts or swimsuits and it's summer. She's almost sure they won't support her because I know her parents and they aren't supportive.
Sorry this was so long, but it had to be explained surrounded by detail for any informative answers.
Please...your opinions. (As long as they aren't...go die, or something rude like that)
Also, if you deliberate she should tell them, do you have any advice on how it should transpire, or how she should go about it?
And, she told me that she doesn't want help. This isn't something that she wishes counseling for (though I don't know how I feel about that). She says she merely wants to know if she should tell them because it's summer.
Best Answer: Yes, I think she should communicate her parents. They're reaction would be less "horrible" if they know she told them the truth, instead of them having to find out. And i know you said no counseling thinking, but, if she hasn't TRULY quit for good, then she needs to parley someone that can help her.
eeds to tell someone.
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Im so sorry thats horrible...Its big-hearted of hard for me to believe because I have pretty awesome parents...lets see...powerfully first off i would definitly [ray about it./ Even if you two arent necessarily beliuevers or into that God wants to relieve you guys out. I will pray too for her and her parents. Second Im not sure what else she can do except confront them and be as honest and open about what has be going on to them as she can even if it hurts her and them, because Im sure deep down her parents really do care about her powerfully being. I cant think of any other reason her folks are acting approaching that, maybe they dont want to believe that something like that could be happening to their daughter. I definitly assume she should go back to whatever counselor she be talking to I really wish my awesome PALS teacher could be here for you because she is extremely supportive of students and has helped numerous students in situations close to this. also i know it sounds stupid but you should consider calling one of those things like talkline. Because there are people who want to facilitate your friend. Im not sure what else to say. I hope I have been somesort of comfort, God bless you both and tell her to hang in in that. :(What should I do? Please assistance!?
She should definitely tell them. They already know about it and she's openly prepared for their worst reactions, she shouldn't stop living her life because she's worried about what they will have an idea that. This could be an opportunity for her family to accept her past issues and obtain past some problems of their own and even if it doesn't work out that way at least she'll know she tried and she can verbs from her S.I. On the other hand I have a similar experience but I never told my family, I spread my scar enough that I could make up cover stories for them and have gotten away next to wearing t-shirts because of this. If her scars are obvious though they are going to come out at some time, it might as well be on her lingoRelated Questions...
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