How would you hold react to the comment "You are to dressed" when you know you are not.?
Keep in mind I always get compliments from strangers, friends on the method I dress
Today I put on light gray capri pants and a button down light gray blouse. In the middle of the blouse going from top to bottom is a design.
Any opening around 10:30am I screamed out to my mom to turn on Channel 4 (NBC) - they had Produce Pete on. She asked what was it nearly and I told her it is about how to pick peaches. She came into my room to watch and after the segment be over she looked at me and said "You looked to dressed up" . This got me mad and we had some spar. Of course she said mean things like "The blouse is too big" "You used to buy things that fit you now you only grab any old thing" " You look like you are going to a ball" which none of what she said is true. ALL I WAS DOING WAS WEARING A PAIR OF GRAY CAPRI PANTS AND A GRAY BLOUSE
Then she departed the apartment to go out for the day but she telephoned me five minutes following from the car - she never pulled out of the spot by the apartment building. She called to ask if I wanted to walk with her so I said ok, I saved the spot. We have one spot within the back that we pay for the other car have to park on the street. Her car is usually on the street and my car is usually in the spot we recompense for reason being she works and I am home so I take her to work and pick her up so I dont hold to worry about finding a spot during the day.
Any course when we were at lunch I told her that she had no right to say anything and she said that she could say-so anything she wants and it was nothing horrific to say when she said I was over dressed. I told I was not.
I am really launch to hate her. I WORE THE GRAY BLOUSE AND THE GRAY CAPRI PANTS - I DID NOT CHANGE. I
ALSO I hate the way she dresses. Yes she wear capri pant but she only wears te
Best Answer: You could say to your Mom, "If I ever told you adjectives the things I think about how you dress, you wouldn't want to hear them." Tell her she hurt you by saying what she did. I hope you will be capable of work things out. Good Luck.
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